Wednesday, February 13, 2008

Valentines day !!!

Valentines Day!!!! A day highly commercialized by the card companies, soft toys and flower industry in the initial years. Today it is commercialized by any business or industry who is in any way directly or indirectly related to this day.....just yesterday I saw a Valentines Day special offer by Go Air giving special discounts if traveling with your partner....How is air travel and valentines day related? we would wonder........but there is the relation put up by Go Air.... travel with your loved one and get a discount on the second ticket purchased (still not able to get the connection between air travel and love)

Valentines day gained prominence in India mostly over the past 10 to 15 years and this can be attributed to the opening up of the Indian economy and the FDI flowing in. The day is so much commercialized today that there are write ups and offers for the day lined up even months before the D-day. It has influenced the young minds of India so much that we see little kids at school too celebrating the day spending stupendous amounts on buying gift for the ones they claim they love (rather early I would say to have found their soul mates in class 1). They start their Valentines day by buying flowers and chocolates (budget constraints) and move on to buying jewellery, electronic gadget, diamond and other expensive as they grow up.

Instead of it being just a day long celebration ...recent years show that it has turned into a weeklong celebration and I am sure not far away is the time when the whole month of February would be celebrated with offers and special discount for travel, food and clothing and anything which can be related to this day dedicated to Love.

I often wonder if any other Saint in Christianity has attained so much popularity around the world....and if any other day other than Christmas in Christianity has gained such popularity among all faiths around the world. Also wondering if any of those who celebrate this day with great splendor know that 14th of February is the feast of St. Valentine and we are actually celebrating his martyrdom for helping people who loved each other.

Tuesday, February 12, 2008

Valentines Day.....

This is an entry which I have taken from the internet an entry by me regarding Valentines day will be posted shortly.

Every February, across the country, candy, flowers, and gifts are exchanged between loved ones, all in the name of St. Valentine. But who is this mysterious saint and why do we celebrate this holiday? The history of Valentine's Day -- and its patron saint -- is shrouded in mystery. But we do know that February has long been a month of romance. St. Valentine's Day, as we know it today, contains vestiges of both Christian and ancient Roman tradition. So, who was Saint Valentine and how did he become associated with this ancient rite?

Today, the Catholic Church recognizes at least three different saints named Valentine or Valentinus, all of whom were martyred.

One legend contends that Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed marriage for young men -- his crop of potential soldiers. Valentine, realizing the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret. When Valentine's actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be put to death.

Other stories suggest that Valentine may have been killed for attempting to help Christians escape harsh Roman prisons where they were often beaten and tortured.

According to one legend, Valentine actually sent the first 'valentine' greeting himself. While in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love with a young girl -- who may have been his jailor's daughter -- who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed 'From your Valentine,' an expression that is still in use today.Although the truth behind the Valentine legends is murky, the stories certainly emphasize his appeal as a sympathetic, heroic, and, most importantly, romantic figure. It's no surprise that by the Middle Ages, Valentine was one of the most popular saints in England and France.

While some believe that Valentine's Day is celebrated in the middle of February to commemorate the anniversary of Valentine's death or burial -- which probably occurred around 270 A.D -- others claim that the Christian church may have decided to celebrate Valentine's feast day in the middle of February in an effort to 'christianize' celebrations of the pagan Lupercalia festival. In ancient Rome, February was the official beginning of spring and was considered a time for purification. Houses were ritually cleansed by sweeping them out and then sprinkling salt and a type of wheat called spelt throughout their interiors. Lupercalia, which began at the ides of February, February 15, was a fertility festival dedicated to Faunus, the Roman god of agriculture, as well as to the Roman founders Romulus and Remus. To begin the festival, members of the Luperci, an order of Roman priests, would gather at the sacred cave where the infants Romulus and Remus, the founders of Rome, were believed to have been cared for by a she-wolf or lupa. The priests would then sacrifice a goat, for fertility, and a dog, for purification.

The boys then sliced the goat's hide into strips, dipped them in the sacrificial blood and took to the streets, gently slapping both women and fields of crops with the goathide strips. Far from being fearful, Roman women welcomed being touched with the hides because it was believed the strips would make them more fertile in the coming year. Later in the day, according to legend, all the young women in the city would place their names in a big urn. The city's bachelors would then each choose a name out of the urn and become paired for the year with his chosen woman. These matches often ended in marriage. Pope Gelasius declared February 14 St. Valentine's Day around 498 A.D. The Roman 'lottery' system for romantic pairing was deemed un-Christian and outlawed. Later, during the Middle Ages, it was commonly believed in France and England that February 14 was the beginning of birds' mating season, which added to the idea that the middle of February -- Valentine's Day -- should be a day for romance. The oldest known valentine still in existence today was a poem written by Charles, Duke of Orleans to his wife while he was imprisoned in the Tower of London following his capture at the Battle of Agincourt. The greeting, which was written in 1415, is part of the manuscript collection of the British Library in London, England. Several years later, it is believed that King Henry V hired a writer named John Lydgate to compose a valentine note to Catherine of Valois.

In Great Britain, Valentine's Day began to be popularly celebrated around the seventeenth century. By the middle of the eighteenth century, it was common for friends and lovers in all social classes to exchange small tokens of affection or handwritten notes. By the end of the century, printed cards began to replace written letters due to improvements in printing technology. Ready-made cards were an easy way for people to express their emotions in a time when direct expression of one's feelings was discouraged. Cheaper postage rates also contributed to an increase in the popularity of sending Valentine's Day greetings. Americans probably began exchanging hand-made valentines in the early 1700s. In the 1840s, Esther A. Howland began to sell the first mass-produced valentines in America.

According to the Greeting Card Association, an estimated one billion valentine cards are sent each year, making Valentine's Day the second largest card-sending holiday of the year. (An estimated 2.6 billion cards are sent for Christmas.)

Approximately 85 percent of all valentines are purchased by women. In addition to the United States, Valentine's Day is celebrated in Canada, Mexico, the United Kingdom, France, and Australia.

Valentine greetings were popular as far back as the Middle Ages (written Valentine's didn't begin to appear until after 1400), and the oldest known Valentine card is on display at the British Museum. The first commercial Valentine's Day greeting cards produced in the U.S. were created in the 1840s by Esther A. Howland. Howland, known as the Mother of the Valentine, made elaborate creations with real lace, ribbons and colorful pictures known as "scrap". Special thanks to American Greetings.

Thursday, February 07, 2008

Summer vacations!!!!

We three the "Troublesome Trio" had the best childhood days anybody could have dreamed of. Onam, Christmas and summer breaks were eagerly looked forward to.........the first reason being no classes and second being loads of fun and play in the colony. The Onam vacation was filled with days full of games.........some time putting up floral carpets in one of our houses. Christmas was dedicated to the choir practices for X'mas and New Year mass...hence mainly in the church and the rest of the time practicing these song so the X'mas vacation was dedicated to these.

The long lazy summer breaks were ones eagerly looked forward to.... getting up early so that we could play shuttle before it became too sunny......visiting the houses in the colony after that ...... climbing walls and mango trees ....... plucking the unripe mangoes and having them with salt on the terraces.... ripen mangoes when they were available. Lunch’s in one of the houses in the colony........cycling, small picnics in places near our colony....... pickle tasting sessions(Neets mom used to put delicious pickles and we saw to it that they did not last more a day or two) birthdays, evening get together .....Oh those carefree days when the only tension was when will we be called back home :)

There used to be lazy days as well when we used to end up sitting in one of our homes talking nineteen to a dozen and emptying the kitchen of the home we ended up being......

I still remember one of the vacation not long after we shifted into the colony all the kids in the colony were bored and hence came up with an idea of helping the aunties and uncles in the colony...... we planned to get the daily grocery what they required every day from the nearby supermarket... of course we expected a fees of Rs2 (cheap nah but think of it divided between like 5 of us) for every delivery made... the sweet uncles and aunties that they are they used to give us a daily order of milk and bread just to humor us... we even had this initiative named 'We Help'..... we who were lazy when our mom used to ask us to go for errands were ready to get grocery for the whole of the colony.....remembering those days brings a smile on my face ... what all we end up doing when we are kids.....

These vacations hold nostalgic memories of both happiness and sadness.......these are memories which are treasured in my heart and bring back a smile whenever remembered fondly.

A blank canvas awaiting to be filled.............the random thoughts which seldom stop.....a spark